As many of you know, the economy is made everyone think twice about spending money.  Everyone is trying to get the best deal on purchases and Christmas gifts.  Over the last couple months, I have received a large number of promotions from advertisers.  I get them daily.  They are offering free shipping, discount prices and much more.  I started to think how can I help my readers.  How can I help my readers save money during the Christmas/holiday season?  Well I’ve come up with a idea that will make many …

I’m always comparing my teenage years to those of my son Alpha Boy.  I’ve gone through all the list of things that I remember.  I always think of girls and sex being the biggest topic of discussion.  It’s not.  The reason is, when talking about sex it requires another willing person.  Do I think he can talk his way into a girl friend and/or sex?  I have no doubt that he could.  But I’ve prepared him for that.  The other thing that I think about is drinking.  I remember being …

My question is probably very obvious to many, but my situation is a little different then many that i have read about. I am biracial (white/black)and have dated many Caucasian men with no problems, I have been more attracted to Caucasian men. The problem is that I currently live in a mostly Italian area (is known for previous spots of racism, i have never experienced though) of the city and am dating a guy who is Italian. He told me from the beginning that …

OK, I took a moment to respond because I have mixed emotions on this one.  I’ll start with the good stuff.  I took my kids out of school for the day when Obama came to Dallas for the rally leading to the Democratic Nomination.  Actually, I told them I was going and they ASKED if they could go, too.  I was surprised, pleasantly.  So, we stood in line ALL morning.  When Obama’s tour bus rolled up, I was right there, maybe 10 feet from the bus.  He was leaning …

Wow, this is the 1st week in a long time I feel like I’ve been on a emotional roller coaster.  It started on Monday.  Dirt Bike Boy has a problem with his teacher and ended up suspended for 2 days.  At first I was irritated.  I couldn’t believe my child was being so difficult.  I couldn’t believe that he wouldn’t follow directions from his teacher.  He needed to be punished and he was.  By Wednesday I understood what was going on.  I received a phone call from the principal to …

Lately I have been reading and hearing about black men that I consider Interracial Dating Cowards.  I normally don’t call anyone out in disgust, but this time I have to call it like I see it.  It became very clear when I was watching The Tyra Banks Show.  Yes, I watch daytime TV while I work.  This particular show was about a black man who had a white girl friend.  His ex is still in his life and he’s still in love with her.  The ex is a black woman.  …

I normally don’t deal with political topics on IDW, but this is something more and special. I’ve been glued to the television all evening just waiting and watching as the results from every state were announced. It’s official

The last year I’ve had a big brother looking over my shoulder and I’ve hated every minute of it.  It started in November 2007.  There was a knock on my front door and there were two federal agents that were asking me questions regarding my medical supply business.  At first I thought it was a witty attempt of one of my friends trying to play a practical joke and punk me.  I’ll never forget it, they showed me their badges and federal identification.  I was very short with all my …

Next week on Swirl radio I have a special guest, Nina Hartley. Nina Hartley is know for several reasons. The main reason I remember her is because of her career in adult movies. She was one of the most popular white women doing IR adult movies when it wasn’t a popular thing to do. That’s right. Nina’s cutting edge.

Friday was Halloween and I decided to go out with a couple friends.  I met MB and OnlyChild met at Down Under Pub in Frisco.  It’s a great place to check out costumes in the area.  I’ve been going to Down Under since it opened and I know way too many people there.  It didn’t take long before the fun began.  Within a few minutes of being there I felt a tap on the shoulder.  It was PM45.  I didn’t remember her name at first, but after searching through my …

I have to admit that Halloween is in my top 3 holidays of the year.  It’s not just for kids.  It’s for adults too.  This is the one occasion that anyone and everyone can dress up in a totally ridiculous costume.  Over the years, I’ve been a super hero, football players, rodeo clowns, ghosts and even Tiger Woods.  I’ve never had a dull Halloween.  I usually go out with Alpha Boy and Dirt Bike Boy to get candy and chase the neighbors kids up and down the street.  This is …

It appears that the IR sex tourism market is alive and thriving.  When I talk to white women about an IR vacation, they usually mention Jamaica.  It has everything they are looking for.  They enjoy the beautiful beaches.  The tropical weather, fruity Rum cocktails, and exquisite black men.  Every night they end up dancing in a club to the powerful reggae beat.  It doesn’t take long for the women/couples to find a willing black male to participate in a evening of sexual exploration.  I thought this was nothing more than …