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I can’t tell you how many times I have heard that the white women are “taking the only good black men we have.”  It was like it was my fault that a black man with an education or an ambition was interested in me.  And trust me not every black guy that was interested in me was an upstanding citizen.  Just like not every white guy that has been interested in me has been either.  Black women blame white women for a lot of the interracial dating.  I don’t like how there is an assumption that white women are stealing their black men.

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Model-Ashlee Feldman

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I am often asked when it was that I started dating black men, and as I look back in grade school my best friend was black. We spent many of slumber parties trying out the latest Michael Jackson moves. We had matching penny loafers and she even had the white glittery glove. Soon my parents and I moved where we spent 5 years in NM which had a very small population of black students in the school, if anything I was the minority being white in a school of Hispanics.  It taught me to be very accepting of other cultures.

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White Women Don’t Trust Black Men?

by Eathan

One thing that the Tiger Wood saga has created is a lot of talk about the black men being faithful spouses/mates.  I have the same conversation for years with friends, dates, and acquaintances.  And even though the concept that black men can’t be faithful and are sex addicts is practically as popular as the “hung [...]

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5 Creative Places To Meet White Women

by Eathan

In the last few weeks, I’ve had a few of my twitter followers ask what my favorite place to meet white women. I don’t think I’ve created a list before.

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When Swirl Goes Bad

by Eathan

Every now and then Swirl goes bad. In case you don’t know, former NFL Quarterback Steve “Air” McNair died in a major swirl controversy. Even an avid

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Parenting Styles and Dating

by Eathan

This time of the year my dating flood gates always open. It seems once the school year is over single moms are looking for a date. In the last 2 weeks I’ve gone on 8-9 first dates. And in normal Eathan form, I had 3 dates on Saturday. Yes, I said 3!

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Same Circus, Different Clowns Pt II

by Priscilla

Today’s post is written by Priscilla San Remo. I’m not supposed to be dating right now, but since part of my Dating Detox homework is to figure out what I like in my dates, I decided to do a little window shopping. I hid my profile on Match (so I could cruise with impunity) and started looking at African American men

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Once You Go Black..

by Britney

I have tried to date a white man, but as the saying goes, “once you had black you never go back.” To me life isn’t worth living if you can’t be yourself and love who you chose to love. Hiding your true wants and needs will prevent you from experiencing all life has to offer. Passion is what drives us, what ignites us. Every woman deserves to feel passion in her life.

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Christmas Party 2008 – Part 2

by Eathan

As most of you read, KW44 hosted a Christmas Party this year. It was a collection of singe divorcees that wanted to celebrate the holidays together. By the time the party was rolling, I began to miss my old neighborhood. It seemed to change so much in the last year. The conversations have become much more entertaining. KW44 and the ladies were in a full question and answer on the myths of black and hispanic men.

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Something New – From Teacia

by Eathan

This Guest post by Teacia – Ahhh, what a clich??what exactly makes something ?new??I mean really. It?s not like men come in pretty packaging with a big red ribbon wrapped tightly around them. Yet the prospect of venturing out into something new paints a picture of just that. A new life, wrapped all nicely and [...]

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