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Sometimes I see something on the news that makes me shake my head in shock.  So I wanted to share the story here and get everyone’s thoughts.  In a neighboring community, Joseph came home to hear his wife moaning loudly from the bathroom.  From his own admission,  ”I thought there was a man back there; she was, having an affair or something to that effect,”

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Model-Ashlee Feldman

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I have learned a lot about dating in the year I have been single; especially dating online. I have found it interesting how many white women, after a divorce consider dating out of their race.  Many have messaged me and asked if I dated white women. I usually laugh or give them a hard time before I answer.  But it’s also interesting how many say they always wanted to but never did.  This intrigues me since I have dated whom ever I chose my whole life and wonder what makes one wait until they are in their 40’s to do what they have always wanted to do.  And why couldn’t you do it in your 30’s or 20’s?  Did they not have the personal courage to date outside their race?

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7 Top Reasons Why Tiger & Elin Should Get Divorced

by Eathan

Tiger & Elin Woods is the most public Swirl breakup/divorce that I can remember in ages. And while they are celebs and live the life that most people can only dream of, their issues are common. Broken relationships aren’t always fixable

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Lessons Learned, Jon & Kate

by Eathan

I’ve avoided writing about this subject for sometime, but now I have no choice. Jon and Kate, from reality show fame Jon and Kate plus 8, are getting a divorce. Yes it’s official and it’s time to discuss some of the lessons learned from this interracial reality couple.

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Speak Up Single Dads

by Eathan

After a few days of not writing, I have plenty of things to say. As a single dad, I like to read what single moms have to say. One of my regular sites to read is SingleMomSeeking. I recently read about a topic that got under my skin.

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The Adventures of Dirt Bike Boy Update

by Eathan

One of the biggest challenges that divorced parents deal with during a crisis is uniting. As many of you know, I’ve been very busy and overwhelmed with Dirt Bike Boy in the last week. He’s been sick and in the hospital for the last week.

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Divorce And Holidays

by Eathan

The holidays can be one of the most stressful times of the year.? It’s very stressful for many divorced parents.? Usually divorced parents take turns with the kids every year.? One year you have the kids and next year you don’t.? Here in Texas, normal divorces allow you to have your kids every other Thanksgiving [...]

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How Things Change

by Eathan

Everyone once in a while I have to thank some of the white men that piss off white women.? They meet a beautiful woman in college, get married and have kids.? Some time during their marriage things change.? They don’t go out to listen to their favorite band, concerts or even dancing.? They complain about [...]

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Saturday Night W/KT35

by Eathan

Yesterday it wasn’t too hot in Dallas.? It was actually a bit cooler than it has been.? It was down to a mere 99 degrees.? After spending most of the day inside watching movies with my kids, we decided to go swimming.? KT35 and I had been messaging most of the day, so I invited [...]

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Finding my way home

by Eathan

Guest post by Josey.??Josey is?my personal friend, ?long time reader and fan of IDW.? This is her introduction to interracial dating. I am a single female, 36, who takes great care of herself and have been blessed physically with beautiful features, including a warm, eye catching smile. I was in two long term relationships with [...]

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