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“I am 15 year old white female, and my parents don’t care if I date, but when I became interested with a half black boy and he asked me out they forbade me to date him. They said that they didn’t have anything against the boy but that I didn’t understand how society and other people would treat us and that they were looking out for my best interests. I wanted to know, is this normal? Are my parents being unfair and racist or are they really looking out for me?” – Anna

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Back in 1990 I was stationed at Ft Carson, Co. Me and two friends, both black had left the club and were in line at Denny’s which was right off of Academy Blvd. All three of us were Soldiers so we had jobs, money, cars, etc etc. Now as we were in line, I noticed there were two black females to our rear and two white females to our front. Well one of my boys made an attempt to holler at the two black girls. He was soon followed by my other partner. They spent a good 10 minutes or so cracking jokes trying their hardest. But the girls just weren’t having it and after several failed attempts they gave up.

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I Am For Interracial Dating Until…

by Eathan

A few weeks ago I was out to dinner with a close friend, JB46.  She’s an attractive white woman with shoulder length brown hair and green eyes.  JB46 and I have known each other for several years.  At one time we worked out at the same gym and would meet at Starbucks for a quick [...]

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Under Rated Places To Meet Black Men In 2010

by Eathan

Women always ask me where they should go to meet black men.  It varies and depends on the type of man you’re trying to attract.  It also depends on where you live.   Every area is different.  I’ve come up with a list of the Under Rated Places to Meet Black Men.   This could [...]

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The War Between Black Women and White Women

by Jenni

I can’t tell you how many times I have heard that the white women are “taking the only good black men we have.”  It was like it was my fault that a black man with an education or an ambition was interested in me.  And trust me not every black guy that was interested in [...]

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Does Strange Hair Equal Random Hook-ups?

by Eathan

I’ve said previously, a lot of white women don’t trust black men.  And maybe this is a prime example of this, but as the discussion of monogamy heats up with AD33 something interesting happened.   One evening AD33 came over to hang out and watch movies.  We went out for dinner and drinks.  I don’t remember exactly [...]

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I Discovered Black Men In My 40′s

by Jennifer L.S. Pearsall

As I made it out of my gawky high school years, muddled through most of college and trundled into adulthood, I never gave the idea of dating outside my race a second thought. Not once. Not ever. I dated almost not at all through high school (pretty, but too band-geeky nerdy), slept around my fair [...]

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Everyone Thought I Only Date Black Men

by Jenni

I am a white girl from the suburbs that dressed just like everyone else and didn’t think I stood out at all.  Well somehow I stood out but I didn’t stand out to everyone, just black men.  My first 2 serious relationships in high school were both with black men.  And for some reason everyone [...]

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Is Monogamy Worth It?

by Eathan

Lately I’ve been thinking about monogamy.  Mostly because I’ve watched several people try to revive their relationship after a cheating mate.  I’ve had plenty of opportunity to think about this topic for the last couple years.  And I’ve probably changed my mind at least a hundred times. I~Swirl Apparel Now Available Model-Ashlee Feldman Purchase of [...]

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Guest Writer – Introducing LB From Portland

by LB

I am often asked when it was that I started dating black men, and as I look back in grade school my best friend was black. We spent many of slumber parties trying out the latest Michael Jackson moves. We had matching penny loafers and she even had the white glittery glove. Soon my parents [...]

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