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Back in 1990 I was stationed at Ft Carson, Co. Me and two friends, both black had left the club and were in line at Denny’s which was right off of Academy Blvd. All three of us were Soldiers so we had jobs, money, cars, etc etc. Now as we were in line, I noticed there were two black females to our rear and two white females to our front. Well one of my boys made an attempt to holler at the two black girls. He was soon followed by my other partner. They spent a good 10 minutes or so cracking jokes trying their hardest. But the girls just weren’t having it and after several failed attempts they gave up.

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I listened to Dr. Laura’s conversation with Jade a couple of times.  I had a lot of mixed feelings about their exchange.  As Dr. Laura went on I feel like she got more offensive.  In the beginning I thought she was trying to understand Jades situation and trying to offer her own personal opinion. It may not be right but she is entitled to her own opinion but after she repeated the N word and then said “if you are too hypersensitive then don’t date out your race” I thought she was totally out of line.  Poor Jade was put in an awful situation and was calling to get support and share her story but instead was slammed and given no compassion.  What it boils down to is that if Jade feels uncomfortable with the comments her friends are making they should respect her position and be sensitive around that particular topic.  I have plenty of friends that joke around with me because I’m white and I joke with them about them being black but not everyone is that open and/or sees the humor in that.

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Would You Date A Racist?

by Ashlee Feldman

A few days ago Dr. Laura was in the news for her racial rant on the radio.  The caller wanted to know how to deal with racial comments from her husbands friends and family.  And even thought Dr. Laura didn’t address the callers question, it created a lot of conversation regarding racism. I~Swirl Apparel Now [...]

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The War Between Black Women and White Women

by Jenni

I can’t tell you how many times I have heard that the white women are “taking the only good black men we have.”  It was like it was my fault that a black man with an education or an ambition was interested in me.  And trust me not every black guy that was interested in [...]

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Don’t Marry Outside Your Race If You Are Hypersensitive?

by Eathan

Dr. Laura Schlessinger recent comments on her radio show have created a major controversy within the interracial community.  If you haven’t heard the audio, it might be offensive and controversial.  The following is NOT the work safe video/audio of the controversial call.  It is the unedited version of the call. I~Swirl Apparel Now Available Model-Ashlee [...]

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I Discovered Black Men In My 40′s

by Jennifer L.S. Pearsall

As I made it out of my gawky high school years, muddled through most of college and trundled into adulthood, I never gave the idea of dating outside my race a second thought. Not once. Not ever. I dated almost not at all through high school (pretty, but too band-geeky nerdy), slept around my fair [...]

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Racism At Church – Guest Post

by Jenni

I went to college in Upstate New York at Syracuse University.  It was a huge diverse student population in a city with a large minority population.  Neither of which bothered me.  I am a half Italian and half Portuguese girl that never felt different or threatened by different types of people.  While in school I [...]

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What Is BBC?

by Eathan

There are many different sides to interracial fetishes.  One of them lives and thrives more than most people realize.  It’s the BBC fetish.  Strangely enough you can take a survey to find out if people know what BBC stands for and I guaranty most will respond, “British Broadcast Company“.  But in the interracial fetish world [...]

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Do Interracial Relationships Hurt Your Social Identity?

by Eathan

As a divorced parent, I have two boys that are 6 years apart in age.  Alpha Boy is the oldest.  He’s in high school.  Dirt Bike Boy is the youngest.  He’s in elementary school.  Even though they look and act alike, they are from two totally different backgrounds.  Alpha Boy’s mother is  more hood than [...]

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Teacher With Biracial Child Is Fired

by Eathan

I’ve been following a news story out of St. Cloud Florida.  When I first heard this story, I had to listen to it 2 times.  I could tell that something didn’t add up.  And I was right.  In April 2009 Jarretta Hamilton informed her employer (Southland Christian School) that she would take a 6 week [...]

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