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Are My Parents Racist or Protective?

by Ashlee Feldman

“I am 15 year old white female, and my parents don’t care if I date, but when I became interested with a half black boy and he asked me out they forbade me to date him. They said that they didn’t have anything against the boy but that I didn’t understand how society and other people would treat us and that they were looking out for my best interests. I wanted to know, is this normal? Are my parents being unfair and racist or are they really looking out for me?” – Anna

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5 Under Rated Places To Meet White Women In 2010

by Jenni

In Response to Eathan’s article about where to meet black men, I thought I would write up a quick little guide to where to meet white women.  A lot of the places Eathan named are great places to meet white women too, but I have a couple hidden gems to share.  However, I do want to start this article off with a disclaimer.  Don’t think this is a magic list, just because you attend something on this list does not mean you are going to find the woman you had been searching for.  You want to make sure to do things that actually interest you.  And this goes for both men and women.  For instance don’t go to a Celtic’s game and meet someone there and expect to never have to watch a game again.

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Converting A Friendship To Sex And Love

by Mandi

I have a diverse dating resume.  I have never limited myself to only dating my own race.  I have dated white men, black men, and Hispanic men.  My ideal man is tall, dark, and handsome though.  I love the smooth chocolate velvetiness of a black man’s skin and their physique.  Regardless of skin color, I [...]

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Under Rated Places To Meet Black Men In 2010

by Eathan

Women always ask me where they should go to meet black men.  It varies and depends on the type of man you’re trying to attract.  It also depends on where you live.   Every area is different.  I’ve come up with a list of the Under Rated Places to Meet Black Men.   This could [...]

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The War Between Black Women and White Women

by Jenni

I can’t tell you how many times I have heard that the white women are “taking the only good black men we have.”  It was like it was my fault that a black man with an education or an ambition was interested in me.  And trust me not every black guy that was interested in [...]

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Diversified Marriages in the Military

by JYD

With the military being a mixture of different races it’s no wonder why there are so many interracial marriages and dating. I think we in the military do a much better job of representing the “spirit” of the American culture and are truly a “stew” of cultures. We use the term stew now because with [...]

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Exploring Dating Diversity In Your 40′s

by JYD

I have learned a lot about dating in the year I have been single; especially dating online. I have found it interesting how many white women, after a divorce consider dating out of their race.  Many have messaged me and asked if I dated white women. I usually laugh or give them a hard time [...]

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Everyone Thought I Only Date Black Men

by Jenni

I am a white girl from the suburbs that dressed just like everyone else and didn’t think I stood out at all.  Well somehow I stood out but I didn’t stand out to everyone, just black men.  My first 2 serious relationships in high school were both with black men.  And for some reason everyone [...]

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Is Monogamy Worth It?

by Eathan

Lately I’ve been thinking about monogamy.  Mostly because I’ve watched several people try to revive their relationship after a cheating mate.  I’ve had plenty of opportunity to think about this topic for the last couple years.  And I’ve probably changed my mind at least a hundred times. I~Swirl Apparel Now Available Model-Ashlee Feldman Purchase of [...]

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Wanted – Guest Writers

by Eathan

Idatewhite is looking to diversify the content and topics of discussion.  Recently Ashlee Feldman and LB have joined the list of contributors, but we want to find a couple more contributors.  IDW is looking for additional writers/contributors to offer different thoughts, opinions and insights on interracial topics.  Such as dating, relationships, parenting, hair products, racism, [...]

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