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In Response to Eathan’s article about where to meet black men, I thought I would write up a quick little guide to where to meet white women.  A lot of the places Eathan named are great places to meet white women too, but I have a couple hidden gems to share.  However, I do want to start this article off with a disclaimer.  Don’t think this is a magic list, just because you attend something on this list does not mean you are going to find the woman you had been searching for.  You want to make sure to do things that actually interest you.  And this goes for both men and women.  For instance don’t go to a Celtic’s game and meet someone there and expect to never have to watch a game again.

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I am often asked when it was that I started dating black men, and as I look back in grade school my best friend was black. We spent many of slumber parties trying out the latest Michael Jackson moves. We had matching penny loafers and she even had the white glittery glove. Soon my parents and I moved where we spent 5 years in NM which had a very small population of black students in the school, if anything I was the minority being white in a school of Hispanics.  It taught me to be very accepting of other cultures.

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Who Contributes More To Relationships?

by Eathan

Lately the comments of Houston rapper Slim Thug has been echoing through out the black community.  Some have reacted with disgust, shock, and disbelief.  Others are quietly agreeing with him on so many levels.  For all those who didn’t get a chance to read it, I’ll share just a excerpt from the Vibe interview. I~Swirl [...]

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White Women Don’t Trust Black Men?

by Eathan

One thing that the Tiger Wood saga has created is a lot of talk about the black men being faithful spouses/mates.  I have the same conversation for years with friends, dates, and acquaintances.  And even though the concept that black men can’t be faithful and are sex addicts is practically as popular as the “hung [...]

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5 Creative Places To Meet White Women

by Eathan

In the last few weeks, I’ve had a few of my twitter followers ask what my favorite place to meet white women. I don’t think I’ve created a list before.

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What is a BV?

by Eathan

I received a couple emails regarding the term BV. So I decided to repost a detail description of what a BV is and how it earned a place in my social vocabulary. The idea of a typical virgin seems to be more of a over exaggerated practical joke.

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Parenting Styles and Dating

by Eathan

This time of the year my dating flood gates always open. It seems once the school year is over single moms are looking for a date. In the last 2 weeks I’ve gone on 8-9 first dates. And in normal Eathan form, I had 3 dates on Saturday. Yes, I said 3!

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Are White Women Different?

by Eathan

Every time my buddy and I work together, he always asks me if I am going out to have a drink after. Most of the time, I say yes and then the next line is always the same.

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Should You Shave Or Trim?

by Eathan

Earlier this week, I listened to a radio show that discussed the concept of manscaping. The two male talk show hosts laughed at the idea, but it’s no laughing matter. For everyone that doesn’t know what manscaping is, The Urban Dictionary defines it as-

“A term used to define male grooming below the belt…

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Gold Digga Factor

by Eathan

I’m not saying she’s a gold digger, but she ain’t messing with no broke n***a! Well said Kanye, well said. Over the last few weeks, I’ve been involved with several discussions on gold diggers, spoiled women, and cheap men. There are some major differences between men and women. Of course I’m not here to attempt to resolve any of those issues. I’m just going to point out my latest experience. The last few days ZC22 and I have been talking on the phone. We’ve had a couple interesting conversations, but the one thing that stands out is the Gold Digga Factor.

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